A warm-hearted daydreamer
with a laugh that tends to wander—
and a playlist for every plot twist your heart didn’t see coming.
The October
Boundaries
Rates &
Know Each Other
...maybe?
Whether you’ve got a story to tell, a playlist to share, or just want to say hi—I’m all ears.
Twitter — Telegram — Spotify —Letterboxd —Tellonym —Padlet
In the circle of the year,
some hearts feel
most alive in October.
Hi! I’m Oktober Banyu—but feel free to call me Okto or Banyu, whichever feels closer to your heart.
I’m in my late twenties, a Sagittarius by birth and spirit: open-hearted, endlessly curious and always searching for meaning in the moments we often overlook. And no, my name isn’t about the number eight, nor does it mean I’m born under Libra or Scorpio. I’m simply and fully—me; someone who believes in warmth, wonder, and the magic of real connection.
A Heart Wrapped
in Laughter
I’m a little bit of everything—a thoughtful listener, a spontaneous laughter, a dreamer who still believes in small, beautiful things, and just the right amount of playful chaos. Whether it’s cracking a spontaneous joke or diving into a philosophical conversation; I’m all in.I’m the kind of person who finds joy in shared silences, in quoting a favorite show at the perfect time, or in holding space for you when your world feels too heavy. Life, to me, is best lived with lightness and depth.
More Than Just
a Companion
I’m a big fan of movie nights that turn into long conversations, inside jokes that never get old, and loving someone so well they feel safe just being themselves. I find joy in discovering those unexpected moments of meaning or hilarity and sharing them with the people I love. Whether we’re binge-watching a new series, chasing sunsets, or simply staying in and being silly, I show up fully.People often say I’m both the calm and the storm—a listener who hears between the lines and a presence that lifts the room. I remember what matters to you. And when I say I’ve got your back, I mean it—on the good days, the hard ones, and all the in-betweens. If you’ve had a tough day, I'll be the first to remind you: you did your best, and that’s more than enough.
When I Love,
I Love Softly and Deeply
To love me is to be cherished in small, steady ways. I might spoil you with unexpected sweetness or just hold your hand when words fall short and be the guy who leans into a hug a little longer than expected. I can be the gentleman who pampers or the goofball who melts under a hair ruffle. I don’t mind being both, though. Either way, I’ll choose you with intention, over and over again.
| Name | Oktober Banyu Dirgantoro |
| Nickname | Okto/Banyu |
| Age | 28+ |
| Language | I mainly speak in Bahasa Indonesia, but I’m comfortable communicating in English too—just let me know what works best for you. |
| Love Language | I thrive on Words of Affirmation and Quality Time—kindness in conversation and shared moments mean the world to me. |
| MBTI | ISTP-A |
| Face Claim | Lee Do-hyun (Side: Lee Soo-hyuk, Seventeen’s Wonwoo, Choi Woo-shik, Joe Alwyn) |
Side Faceclaims
Available
What I’m Listening To (and Watching)
My Soundtrack
I’ve wandered through just about every music genre, and truth be told—I still can’t pick a favorite. But there are artists who never fail to pull me back in, time and time again. They’ve all shaped my playlists—and parts of my heart:
The Killers, All Time Low, Seafret, Paramore, The Temper Trap, Bring Me The Horizon, Mayday Parade, Kodaline, Yam Haus, fun., Gorillaz, Muse, and Owl City.And then there’s my old soul side, the one that gets completely swept up in the timeless magic of ‘80s and ‘90s hits. Those songs? They don’t just play—they pull me into another world entirely.
From haunting scores to heart-tugging writing, these shows left something with me—and maybe they'll stay with you too. Here are some of the best-scored, most unforgettable series I’ve seen so far (with more to come, because my watchlist never sleeps)
Stories That Stuck With Me
+ The Last of Us (2023)
+ House of the Dragon (2022)
+ Alice in Borderland (2020)
+ Ted Lasso (2020)
+ Chernobyl (2019)
+ Kingdom (2019)
A Few Things
I gently ask
I believe meaningful connection begins with understanding—so here are a few personal boundaries I’d love for you to know. These aren’t rules, just small ways I try to keep conversations kind, honest, and human.Keep it light in the chat box. To keep our conversations meaningful and manageable, I kindly ask that you send no more than 10 message bubbles at a time. It helps me stay engaged and respond with care.Humor is my love language—but I’m still learning. I’m a goofball by nature, and I sometimes make jokes that don’t land the way I intend. If something I say ever hurts or feels off, please tell me. I’ll listen with an open heart.I’m a bit quirky, and I own it. My playful side can be intense or even a little weird at times. But don’t worry—it’s all in good fun and (mostly) under control. If you’re into gentle chaos, we’ll get along just fine.I’m not a therapist—and I won’t pretend to be. I’m always here to hold space and listen, but I’m not trained in mental health or psychological stuff. I care deeply, but I’m still learning on this one too, just like everyone else.Privacy is a two-way street I hold my own space with quiet care, and I’ll respect yours with just as much. Let’s protect what makes us feel safe.
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Gentle
Boundaries
Before you step into this little world of mine, here are a few honest truths and important notes to keep things respectful, smooth, and enjoyable for both of us—because real connection is built on understanding, not just charm.
AvailabilityMy time is yours from 10:00 AM to 10:00 PM (GMT+7). I’ll be present, attentive, and just a message away within these hours. And I do have a full-time job from 08.00 AM to 05.00 PM, so there might be a slight delay in replies—but I promise I’ll be there for you as soon as I get a breather. Thanks for your patience and understanding.
Romantic Orientation
I offer companionship strictly within a BxG dynamic. Please also note: You must be 24 or older to engage in this service.Boundaries I Kindly Ask You to Respect
1. No NSFW content or scenarios—let’s keep this space warm, respectful, and emotionally safe.
2. I’m not responsible for any feelings that may arise before, during, or after our time together. Let’s cherish the moment, but stay grounded in its purpose.
3. The minimum service duration is half a day; the maximum is a week.
4. Sessions are non-refundable, though I’m happy to reschedule with prior notice.
Where We’ll Talk
I’m available through Telegram and Twitter only. This service is intended for CA, BA, and FA users.Plotting & Imagination
I love a good story—so if we’re imagining or plotting something together, I’d really appreciate it if you could be the detailed type. The richer the world we create, the more beautiful it becomes.
For Inquiries
Please reach out to Nate B. Springs via DM for any bookings, questions, or further information.Aftercare
Words matter. If you’d like to share a note or reflection after our session, I’d be truly grateful. Feel free to drop a thought or two on my Padlet—I read them with warmth, every time.
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Whether you’re here for a spark of warmth, a cozy day of company, or a little bit of both—choose the kind of connection that fits your heart.
Irenic
Rp. 23.000,-
per session
A gentle breeze for a half-day of comfort
Choose between a Spotify listening session or some time gaming together.- Face claim request available
- Half day package:
10:00 AM–4:00 PM or 4:00 PM–10:00 PM
Serein
Rp. 30.000,-
per day
Soft conversations wrapped in a more intimate setting.
For those who want to feel heard, seen, and serenaded.- One client per platform
- Face claim request available
- Includes Spotify session
- Your choice of light imagine or soft plot
- Held during working hours: 10:00 AM–10:00 PM
Cwtch
Rp. 35.000,-
per session
The kind of closeness that feels like a long hug and your favorite song on repeat.
You’ll have my full attention—heart, time, and tender presence.- You’re the only client across all platforms
- Face claim request available
- Includes Spotify session
- Public Display of Affection + your name in my bio
- Your choice of light imagine or soft plot
- I’ll be with you from wake-up to wind-down, fully devoted to your day(s).
- Bonus: Book 5 days or more of Cwtch and receive a small, meaningful gift—just a little thank-you from me to you.
Sweet Little Add-Ons
Want to make our time
a little extra special?
Here are some thoughtful add-ons to sprinkle a bit more magic into our moments together.
Movie & Series Date
+ 8k per movie
+ 8k for 2 episodes of a series
Let’s cozy up, hit play, and enjoy the stories together.Spotify Session
6k / session
A shared playlist and a shared mood—music always knows what words can’t say.Writing Date
10k / excerpt (4–5 paragraphs)
A soft, crafted piece of writing—starring us, of course.Plotting Day
10k / day
For detailed, dreamy scenarios and slow-burn storylines—we’ll build a world together.Hourly Rent
8k / hour
Just need a little moment of company? I’m here for as long or short as you need.Stay Up Late
10k / hour
Available after 10 PM until 2 AM.
If you’d like to add this to your package, let’s chat first and make sure the stars align.PDA/Name in Bio
4k / day
Let the world know I’m yours—for today and maybe a little longer.Game Date
5k / day
Let’s play! Available on Plato and Gartic—lighthearted chaos guaranteed.Food, Book, or Cinema Date
On you, my dear
You bring the craving, I’ll bring the company. Whether it’s a page-turner, a popcorn flick, or your favorite meal—share the vibe, and I’ll match it. We'll plan it together and make it feel just like a real date, even from miles away.
P.S. Each of these add-ons is available with a bit of prior planning. Just drop me a message, and we’ll shape the date together.
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Let’s Get to Know
Each Other